INDIVIDUAL · COUPLES · SEX THERAPY

Therapy for the parts of your life and relationships that are hardest to talk about.

Ilana Grines, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist providing in-person therapy in Los Angeles and virtual therapy throughout California.

LMFT #116296 Certified Sex Therapist LGBTQ+ Affirming
Ilana Grines, licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist
Los Angeles-based Virtual therapy available throughout California

YOU MAY BE HERE BECAUSE

You are tired of understanding the pattern without knowing how to change it.

The same conflict keeps repeating.
You feel disconnected from yourself or your partner.
Desire and intimacy have become complicated.
Anxiety is making it hard to feel present.
Your relationship does not fit a traditional script.
You want support that is warm, honest, and useful.

THERAPY SERVICES

Support built around the person or relationship in front of me.

You do not need to arrive with the perfect words. We can begin with what feels hardest right now and build from there.

THERAPY WITH ILANA

Warm enough to feel safe. Direct enough to help something move.

My approach is collaborative, conversational, sex-positive, and grounded in the belief that desire, connection, identity, and relationships are never one-size-fits-all.

We will look beneath the argument, shutdown, anxiety, shame, or loss of desire to understand what is driving it and what needs to change.

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AFFIRMING ACROSS THE SPECTRUM

LGBTQ+ affirming care is integrated throughout the practice.

I work with LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, and partners across all services. My practice is inclusive of diverse identities, genders, sexualities, bodies, cultures, and relationship structures.

LGBTQ+ affirming Sex-positive Body inclusive CNM and polyamory affirming Kink aware Trauma informed

MEDIA & PROFESSIONAL AUTHORITY

Trusted by national media and invited to educate fellow clinicians.

Ilana provides expert commentary on relationships, sexuality, mental health, identity, and contemporary culture.

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CLIENT EXPERIENCES

What clients have shared about working together.

“She cuts through the complications and details and gets right to the root of things, then proposes specific, actionable ways to improve the situation.”
“Ilana immediately made me feel open, comfortable, and heard. She really takes my needs into account and is very easy to talk to.”
“Ilana helped my wife and I get back to the love we had when we first met. She never made either of us feel like we were being teamed up on.”
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READY TO BEGIN?

You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out.

Schedule a complimentary 15 to 30-minute consultation to briefly discuss what is bringing you in and whether working together feels like a good fit.

Schedule a Free Consultation