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You already know if you want to. The hard part is saying it out loud.
This guide gives you the words.
Three levels: Curious, Exploratory, Adventurous. Work through them solo first, then compare with a partner. Every item gets a Yes, No, Maybe, Fantasy, or Yes-with-restrictions, because desire is rarely a flat yes or no.
Inside: 21 pages covering everything from cuddling to kink, conversation scripts for opening up the hard topics (mismatches, hard nos, fantasies you're not ready to act on), a full glossary so nothing requires prior knowledge, and a resource list for anything that needs more support than a checklist can give.
Fill it out alone. Then swap with your partner. The conversation that follows tends to matter more than the list itself.
You already know if you want to. The hard part is saying it out loud.
This guide gives you the words.
Three levels: Curious, Exploratory, Adventurous. Work through them solo first, then compare with a partner. Every item gets a Yes, No, Maybe, Fantasy, or Yes-with-restrictions, because desire is rarely a flat yes or no.
Inside: 21 pages covering everything from cuddling to kink, conversation scripts for opening up the hard topics (mismatches, hard nos, fantasies you're not ready to act on), a full glossary so nothing requires prior knowledge, and a resource list for anything that needs more support than a checklist can give.
Fill it out alone. Then swap with your partner. The conversation that follows tends to matter more than the list itself.